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What To Do When Your Clit Is Too Sensitive To Orgasm

Sexual problems occur sometimes and you’ll get frustrated about how will you overcome this issue. Just having the thoughts that you cannot perform well because of your sexual problems have given you worries about not satisfying your partner even more. As a result, you are too sensitive to orgasm.

There’s a concern about this sensitivity to orgasm that has been discussed at the EmpowHER (Women’s Health & Wellness) website. According to her, she usually masturbates by the clitoral stimulation and it starts to feel great, but then it became too sensitive and she cannot touch it anymore and cannot get any orgasm either. Another instance is that, a woman, who used a head massager on her vagina for like a year and she could be able to squirt with it.

But then, when the time she stops squirting it then her clit became way too sensitive for her. Look how these women frustrations turned them to discuss their sexual issues about sensitivity. How this sensitivity will overcome? Is this normal? Did they ruin their clit? These are just some of the questions they want to be answered.

Thanked God, Alison Beaver, a Certified Health Educator answered their concerns. According to her, it is normal to have the sensitivity in orgasm because it is indeed a very sensitive organ (clit). Many women are not able to stimulate clitoris for very long or provide direct stimulation for a very long period of time. She also advice to try indirect stimulation instead like, stimulate near or beside clitoris or the hood or the covering of the clitoris, not just the clitoris itself.

Also, what you use for stimulation can vary too. Just expedite experiment! Fingers, water, vibrator, using lubrication, warm washcloth the list can go on and in addition just use different types of pressure and the like.

Never get too hard on your clit!

From then on, all women are different; some are multi orgasmic, well unfortunately some are not. Some have one good one, while others then don’t want to be touched at all. However, there are many things that could be causing this.

Too much concentration to the clitoris may add to the sensitivity of it or you have put too much pressure on it. Moreover, the great thing about clit is that the lightest touch can sometimes bring out the most intense response from your body.

In addition, clothing will also take pressure on that. Underwear, jeans that are too tight in the crotch area can cause the sensitivity. Furthermore, sexual stimulation for women as well as for men is much more about the mental aspect than it is physical. Indeed, you cannot force orgasm, but you can get in the mood with pleasurable scents, sounds and pleasing touches. Don’t just focus on the entire clitoris alone.

Therefore, to lessen the sensitivity, it would be better to pay attention on your erogenous zones in the beginning of sexual interaction. Build up the level of arousal with those other areas first and allow time to relax and enjoy. This simultaneous process will help you to build a better clitoral stimulation which can lead you to the climax.